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January 11th, 2010

The Kiss Code, Your first date.

Butterflies on the first date are normal and it happens to a lot more people than you think. But how exactly to you know when the time to make the move is. How do you know that your date is wants to be kissed and she is ready? Usually the sudden urge you get to kiss someone is usually when you are having light banter. Both your eyes are locked into each other; you are hanging on every word and sneaking stealing a peak at their lips, the lips smiling. What’s going on in your mind now? Are my feelings and intentions mutual? Knowing what is the best kissing etiquette and the code for kissing will give you the intuition to know when and when not to kiss on the date.

You can notice a lot of obvious clues to tell you when it is a go ahead. There is grooming that happens with both guys and girls which is basically unconscious flirtation. The playing of the hair, touching of the face to draw attention to it and doodle with cloths are some of the things you will notice in women. In the same way, men will rub their chin, sit upright and maybe fix a collar in a way to drawing attention to the chest. If you can develop to art of noticing the subtle signs, you can be one step ahead in knowing when would be the right time to make a move or expect a kiss.
It helps to observe body language. Don’t look at this in isolation though, also pay attention on what is said while you are on the date and when you are walking together. If they ask a lot of questions about you then it is a good sign that your date is interested in you. This is also reinforced with the interest in the answers that you give. Eye contact is also a way of telling if some is interested in you and look at how close your date is to you. Frequent smiling and laughing are also good indications

Pay attention to physical clues from your date, but also pay attention to what they say during the date and while walking together. If your date is truly attracted to you, they will ask questions about you and will be genuinely interested in the answers. People will show attraction to someone by maintaining longer eye contact and staying close to their date when walking. Frequent smiling and laughing are also good indications your date is enjoying your company and is attracted to you.

When you date is approaching the end, make sure you keep these tips in mind. If you notice that your date does not want to leave, then it is a good indication that they are expecting a goodnight kiss. Move in a little closer to test their comfort level. If your date backs away, then take the hint that they are not ready for intimacy. Now if your date stands their ground, or maybe moves closer than they are definitely interested and such an instance deserves the attention of a kiss.

The initial kiss should be gentle. Remember less is more on the first kiss and will give the impression of respect for your date. Learn to kiss more lightly and slowly but with purpose. A little open mouth will do and do not go all the way too soon. Leave it to your date to set the pace and how long the kiss goes for. To leave a lasting impression, at the end touch their hand and leave.

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January 5th, 2010

Fat Girls Need Love Too

You were wishing you were size zero like those runway models instead of being plus size. Do you feel as though you are left out in the chase of finding love? Can fat girls get boyfriends? You must be wondering what you could do to be in the chase too. Actually, being fat or thin doesn’t really matter.

God made woman in different shapes and sizes. So you need to learn to be comfortable in your own skin because that is what makes a person attractive – self confidence. When you are confident about yourself, you will beam that sincere smile from within that is hard for anyone to miss. Not only that, you look more positive and you will be attracting more good things your way.

Although you tip the scale on the heavier side, you shouldn’t forget the rule to attract men’s attention is always to present yourself well. So you still need to spend some time grooming yourself to look your best when you go out. If you are neat, tidy and smart, you will still get noticed regardless of your size. This also helps boost your confidence.

The other rule is never give up. As long as you keep trying, keep it light hearted and be yourself when you are out there, nothing stops you from bumping into a potential boyfriend. A great personality carries more weight and intrigues the men species. They are intrigued by all that mystery you’ve got to offer. So, who said fat girls can’t find love?

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January 4th, 2010

How To Make Him Fall in Love With You

Do you always feel as though it’s you who’s more into the guy than he is into you? You always feel bad hoping that it should be the other way round. How would you like to learn the secrets of how to make him fall in love with you?

You may think this is ridiculous, but this is also the hardest secret to hold on to and the most important. It is vital that you avoid physical relationship at all cost in the initial stages of your relationship. Simply because it will be easier for you to pick out who is in it just for the sake of the sex or who’s serious about you. Secondly, it will give him the impression that you are not the easy type and more of a girlfriend material and they will have more respect for you. Give him the chance and some time to get to know you. It’s usually harder for a guy to have feelings towards you after they’ve had the physical relationship going with you.

Work on building a friendship with him. The greatest of lovers were once bestfriends. Friendship which blossoms into a serious relationship would stand a better chance at surviving the relationship tide. Once you are his bestfriend, he would be able to open up and share with you a lot more and this is what that would make him get more hooked into you. Just remember to take your time and take things slowly. Once you have gained his trust and friendship, it is then entirely up to you if you want to move into connecting with him at a physical level. After all, he is yours.

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January 3rd, 2010

The Perfect Kiss

This is one overlooked art of seducing a partner. If you are considering meeting your online partner, make sure that before you are caught in an embarrassing situation of whether you can kiss or not, touch up to some skills of kissing. You just never know when you skill will be called upon. It goes without saying that there a many types of kisses and they all belong to different settings. Here are some types of kisses to get clued up;

There are types of kisses which are common greeting kisses with your partner. A quick kiss on the lips when meeting someone would be a ‘hello kiss’. It says “hey babe or how was your day?” There is also a one level beyond the simple ‘hello kiss’. We will call this one a ‘hello kiss – extra’. This is a little longer than the short kiss on the lips and it says “hey babe, I was thinking about you today”. The third of the greeting kisses is the passionate kiss, which definitely speaks for itself. This we can call the ‘hello kiss – double extra’.

You are lazing about the house with partner or somewhere where you are both comfortable, there are types of kisses which can be exchanged which go a step further of the greeting kisses mentioned above. You get the ‘just a quick kiss’ which is a reminder to your partner that you love them. The next level is the ‘just a quick kiss – extra’, but it is a cheeky way of saying or sometimes followed by “the kids are out playing” or “there is no one about”. Now there is a ‘just a quick kiss – double extra’ which has got the message of you are getting some love tonight. This type of kiss is passionate, playful, long and hard which says how much you want each other. Now there is also one that comes under the description of a quick home kiss which we will call ‘just a quick kiss – nice’. This is just before you sleep and it says “goodnight babe”. This one goes on the cheek or lips.

Now kissing forms a major part of intimacy and the expression of your love during lovemaking is very important and makes a special moment become even more special. There are kisses which go with love making as well which should not be mistaken with the types of kisses mentioned above. The first type of kiss if the ‘thank god the painters have left kiss’. Yes it has been that time of the months and it has put some stops to certain activities. And once that time is over, you can plant a kiss on your partner’s lips to say thanks God it has passed and it’s time to play catch u. The second type of love making kiss is the ‘I really want you now kiss’. This is a long passionate kiss which goes all over the face in a way of say “I am hungry” type of kiss. The you have the ‘spiritual kiss that is long, slow, passionate and it says “I love you on a deep level”

Now you know the ‘Ins and Outs’ of kissing now how do you go about improving you skill of kissing. Well this is a question which has a thousand answers but there are some fundamental points that you should not miss when it comes to kissing.

For men on the average, it is important to have a good close shave. It is preferred by woman during a passionate kiss as opposed to having a stubble. Don’t eat strong foods like garlic or curry. This one is pretty obvious as it can be a put off. Unless of course, she is into garlic as well. One thing to remember is not to kiss your partner if you have any form of mouth infection. There may be a risk to spread it through kissing. Remember kissing is not only meant for the mouth, so don’t ignore other parts of the body. With approval of course, do what she likes. Don’t just stick your tongue up her nostrils, it may not be her thing so be careful and respect boundaries.

Vary you kisses from hard, passionate to soft and long kisses. Maintain eye contact so kiss with your eyes open. Kiss in private; keep the passionate kisses away from others because some people may feel uncomfortable when they see people kissing in public. Do show affection in public with quick pecks though; you will be loved for that.

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January 2nd, 2010

The Art of Getting A Date

Lonely singles out there must be wondering what is it that they are missing out that they find it so difficult to get a date. Actually, it is not that difficult if you could master these few pointers:

1) Be confident

Be comfortable in your own skin, no need to pretend to be someone you are not. The more confident you are about yourself the more attractive you look in the other person’s eye.

2) Invest your time in socialising

Mingling is key. It’s like indirectly announcing that you are available and ready to meet someone. You don’t have to hit the singles bar to do this, do the unconventional like meeting people at the library, parties, get-together functions, weddings, sports club. Be creative!

3) Patience is Virtue!

For newbies, it can take a bit of time to meet someone that would tick all your boxes. So be patient and the right one will come along.

4) Don’t be a desperado!

Don’t be too desperate if your few initial attempts failed. Keep trying. Settling for one-night stands are certainly not recommended to say the least.

5) If you want a date, ask for it!

Don’t be shy to ask the person out for a date with you if you really like him/her. The worse he/ she could say to you is NO. You wouldn’t know if you get lucky!

6) Send out the correct signals

If you are interested to ask the other person out for a date, make sure you send out the correct signals. Your body language says a lot. If you are nervous, remember, the other person is just as nervous as you are. Just take a deep breath.

The art of getting a date isn’t rocket science. If you master the tips above closely, you are guaranteed to find a date you desire without a doubt sooner than you would expect!

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